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		<title>Comment on When They Won&#8217;t Play Nice by focushr</title>
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		<dc:creator>focushr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 18:12:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Jennifer - I will check out the book.
Norma - I actually find that person easier to deal with because they just don&#039;t belong in your organization and need to be worked out of the organization.  It can be a process but the reality is the position, company is not a good fit for that &quot;soul sucker&quot; person and its in their interest to find a place to work that better matches their values and skills.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Jennifer &#8211; I will check out the book.<br />
Norma &#8211; I actually find that person easier to deal with because they just don&#8217;t belong in your organization and need to be worked out of the organization.  It can be a process but the reality is the position, company is not a good fit for that &#8220;soul sucker&#8221; person and its in their interest to find a place to work that better matches their values and skills.</p>
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		<title>Comment on When They Won&#8217;t Play Nice by Norma Wallace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Norma Wallace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 17:48:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is interesting because it assumes both are strong contributors. When there are strong contributors, in my experience, it is fairly easy to refocus them on the job they are both doing well, respectively. I can certainly learn to respect the person without being buddies with them. 

I find the difficulty comes when one of the two is NOT a strong contributor but the opposite - as another article said this morning, a &quot;soul sucker.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is interesting because it assumes both are strong contributors. When there are strong contributors, in my experience, it is fairly easy to refocus them on the job they are both doing well, respectively. I can certainly learn to respect the person without being buddies with them. </p>
<p>I find the difficulty comes when one of the two is NOT a strong contributor but the opposite &#8211; as another article said this morning, a &#8220;soul sucker.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on When They Won&#8217;t Play Nice by Jennifer Keaton</title>
		<link>http://focushr.biz/2168/when-they-wont-play-nice/#comment-97</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Keaton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 18:37:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a Labor &amp; Employment Litigator turned Mediator, I have been called on to mediate workplace issues that involve legal matters many times.  However, I am getting called upon to do &quot;non-legal&quot; mediations between team-members who are having non-legal difficulties working together.  

Being external to the company, I am a fresh set of ears to hear both sides and help them forge a new &quot;business plan.&quot;   Some companies have internal procedures for such conflict resolution, but others call as a last ditch effort.  With the number of reorganizations that have occurred, these mediations have been very helpful to getting the management of change behind the company.  

&quot;The Power of a Positive No&quot; is a short book by William Ury from which I pull many of my negotiation techniques in these kinds of scenarios.  Every HR professional should have it on their shelf (after they&#039;ve read it, of course).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a Labor &amp; Employment Litigator turned Mediator, I have been called on to mediate workplace issues that involve legal matters many times.  However, I am getting called upon to do &#8220;non-legal&#8221; mediations between team-members who are having non-legal difficulties working together.  </p>
<p>Being external to the company, I am a fresh set of ears to hear both sides and help them forge a new &#8220;business plan.&#8221;   Some companies have internal procedures for such conflict resolution, but others call as a last ditch effort.  With the number of reorganizations that have occurred, these mediations have been very helpful to getting the management of change behind the company.  </p>
<p>&#8220;The Power of a Positive No&#8221; is a short book by William Ury from which I pull many of my negotiation techniques in these kinds of scenarios.  Every HR professional should have it on their shelf (after they&#8217;ve read it, of course).</p>
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		<title>Comment on Your Support System &#8211; do you have one? by The Best of 2011 &#124; FocusHR</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Best of 2011 &#124; FocusHR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 15:59:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Are you guilty of this? by The Best of 2011 &#124; FocusHR</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Best of 2011 &#124; FocusHR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 15:59:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on A Sense of Purpose by The Best of 2011 &#124; FocusHR</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Best of 2011 &#124; FocusHR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 16:01:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on What do employees expect from you? by The Best of 2011 &#124; FocusHR</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Best of 2011 &#124; FocusHR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 16:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Is your fear holding you back? by The Best of 2011 &#124; FocusHR</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Best of 2011 &#124; FocusHR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 16:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<dc:creator>IT contractor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 05:13:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on An Unexpected Point of View by Idana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Idana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 16:31:08 +0000</pubDate>
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